#19 Comparison: It's More Than Just The Thief Of Joy!

In today’s episode of She is Courageous Podcast, we get into the universal challenge of comparison. Whether it’s scrolling through social media or watching someone else’s highlight reel, comparison can leave you feeling inadequate, questioning your choices, and even doubting your identity.

But comparison isn’t just the thief of joy, it can quietly undermine your confidence, focus, and sense of self. It makes you believe you need to be more like others and less like yourself, stealing the power that lies in your being YOU!

Shelley explores why comparison is unavoidable in today’s world, how it feeds into self-doubt and fear, and, most importantly, how you can take back control. Sharing personal experiences, client insights, and simple yet powerful strategies to help you shift your mindset, refocus on your own journey, and protect your energy from the comparison trap.

What’s Covered in Today’s Episode

  • How comparison impacts your confidence, focus, and even identity.
  • Why social media and societal pressure make it harder to escape the comparison trap.
  • How to reframe comparison as inspiration rather than self-doubt.
  • Practical ways to protect yourself from comparison spirals, including:
    • Tracking your wins and celebrating your progress.
    • Creating a “proof of progress” list to remind yourself of your achievements.
    • Auditing your social media to remove triggers and curate a feed that uplifts you.
  • Why your greatest superpower is being unapologetically you.

Reminder: The only comparison that matters is with YOU. 

 

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ABOUT SHELLEY

Hi 👋🏻 I’m Shelley, Business and Mindset Coach and Shelley Bosworth Coaching International and founder of The She Is Courageous Collective.

I am an ICF accredited Coach, with a passion for supporting women to understand themselves and their mindset, my absolute mission is to help as many women as possible to get out of their heads, out of their own way and achieve their true potential professionally and personally.

With a 25 year corporate career in senior multi function roles in well known UK retail and hospitality businesses, I absolutely understand the reality of life, my own story and experiences have been a rollercoaster but understanding my mindset has been the key to resiliently bouncing back, keeping going, building a 6 figure business in my 40’s and achieving goals I only dreamed of in my younger years

This is why I am so is passionate about helping you understand the power of your mindset so that you can take courageous action rather than simply wishing, hoping and berating yourself for not moving forward.

If you’re ready to master your mindset and get into massive momentum then you are in the right place!